for peri, meno & generally-over-it women
Done with
night sweats
underwire
pretending.
Honest, funny, actually-useful stuff for midlife women, and the people who love them. Picked by a woman going through it, not a marketing department.
What are you done with?
pick your poison ↓
for you
Treat yourself. You've earned it, twice.
Everything here is picked for real midlife bodies and real midlife moods. Start with whatever's driving you up the wall today.
for him, her, the kids, the best mate
Shopping for her? Good. Don't buy a scarf.
The "help, she's in perimenopause" gift guide is on its way: what to get, what to never get, and what to write in the card. Pop your email in and I'll send it when it's ready.
Get it firstAdd yours to the F✱ck It List
What are you finally done putting up with? Anonymous, unfiltered, and weirdly healing to read. The best ones go up on the wall.
From the wall
- hand-wash-only labels
- saying sorry when someone else bumps into me
- jeans with opinions
- being called "a woman of a certain age"
- fake smiling at work
- pretending I remembered your name
free download
The F✱ck It List starter kit
A symptom tracker, a rage log and your very first F✱ck It List. Print it, scribble on it, take it to your GP so you walk in with evidence.
coming soon
The F✱ck It List app
A focus timer for flitting, foggy brains, with a grumpy black cat who keeps you company. Do one thing, cross it off, get your dopamine. Plus a rage log, because sometimes.
Signing up for the starter kit puts you first in line for the app too.